"Rape is nobody's fault but one has to dress desirably"

Why is this statement wrong?

Arguably, there are two very wrong claims in this comment - one that rape is "nobody's fault", and that one has to "dress desirably" so that nothing such as rape happens.

Every time an incidence of rape hits the news, we see people and the media telling us how the victim was at the wrong place, at a wrong time, and how very stupid it was to do so. Why do we prefer to blame the victim and not the perpetrator of crime?

To know more about this issue, we conducted a twitter chat on ‘Victim Blaming-Society's reaction to rape' with experts Rashi Vidyasagar (NGO Programmes officer), Paras Sharma (Coordinator at iCall a psychosocial helpline), and Vidyut (Socio-political blogger). Here are a few interesting points raised in the chat:

Questioning the media

Reaction to news reports

Lack of reaction

There have been more than 68,000 rapes cases from 2009-2011, but only 16,000 people were convicted. India has been battling the rape menace, but it seems like it's a losing war. Citizens who are supposed to be safeguarding the rights of the victim have turned against them.

How do you think we can stop indulging in what has now become a "spectator sport," and actually help to prevent further assaults?

Write to us with your views to or tweet to us @JaagoRe. You can also reply to the questions we asked during the chat.


Views expressed here are of the author alone and do not necessarily represent that of the brand.

About the authors

Rashi Vidyasagar works as a Programmes Officer with a Non-Governmental Organization working in the area of Violence Against Women. She holds a Master's Degree in Criminology and Criminal Justice Administration and has in the past worked in a consulting/ honorary capacity with other NGOs in the areas of health and education. She has worked as an interventionist and has provided counselling services to over 250 women.

Paras Sharma serves as the Programme Coordinator at iCALL Psychosocial Helpline at the Tata Institute of Social Sciences, Mumbai. He holds a Master's Degree in Counselling and has worked in the area of mental health for nearly 5 years. His work with iCALL has involved training and supervision of counsellors attending to women facing violence, as well as working with the government towards development of protocols and best practice guidelines for State level helplines on Violence Against Women.

Vidyut is a socio-political blogger from India. A believer of a shared country and world where people are free to actualize their potential. Very interested in empowerment of people and of women in particular with a preference for finding solutions and workarounds that allow women to evade attempts to limit them. Also interested in the intersection of the state with women's rights and the impact of history, policy and influence of people in authority on an environment being empowering or restricting for women.

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